10 Common Marriage Green Card Interview Questions

If you and your spouse are preparing for your marriage green card interview, it’s completely normal to feel nervous. After months—or even years—of paperwork, waiting, and gathering documents, everything comes down to one meeting with a USCIS officer. 

This interview is your opportunity to prove that your marriage is real, not one created for immigration purposes. But here’s the truth: even genuine couples sometimes fail because of nerves, confusion, or small inconsistencies in their answers. 

That’s why preparation is everything. In this guide, we’ll walk you through ten of the most common marriage green card interview questions—plus practical advice on how to answer them with confidence and avoid the mistakes that cause denials. 

Why USCIS Asks These Questions 

During your interview, the officer isn’t just looking at your answers—they’re observing how you and your spouse communicate. They’ll notice your tone, your comfort level, and even your body language. 

They’re looking for consistency between your stories, evidence that you share a real life together, and signs that your marriage is authentic—not rehearsed. 

So when you practice your answers, focus on being truthful and natural rather than perfect. 

1. How did you and your spouse meet? 

This is often the first question, and it sets the tone for the rest of the interview. The officer wants to understand the foundation of your relationship. 

You don’t need a movie-worthy story—just be genuine. For example, “We met through mutual friends at a birthday party in 2018. We talked for hours, exchanged numbers, and started dating a few weeks later.” 

Avoid vague or robotic responses like, “We met online,” without any detail. 

2. When and where did you get married? 

This one seems simple, but small inconsistencies between spouses—like mixing up the date or location—can raise doubts. Be clear and consistent: “We got married on April 10, 2022, at St. Mary’s Church in White Plains. Our families and close friends were there.” 

It’s a good idea to review your marriage certificate and timeline together before your interview. 

3. What was your wedding like? 

Whether you had a big celebration or a quiet courthouse ceremony, describe it honestly. Officers understand that every couple’s situation is different. What matters is that your answers sound sincere and match your evidence. 

4. How do you divide household responsibilities? 

This question tests whether you really live together and know each other’s routines. Talk naturally about your daily life—who cooks, who does laundry, or who handles the bills. 

Even small details, like who takes out the trash or walks the dog, show the officer that your marriage is genuine. 

5. Who wakes up first in the morning? 

It may sound trivial, but these “everyday life” questions reveal how well you know each other. You might say, “My spouse wakes up first for work, and I usually get up about an hour later.” Simple, consistent answers work best. 

6. What side of the bed do you sleep on? 

Officers often ask this to confirm shared living arrangements. Couples who live together will answer this easily and consistently. Don’t overthink it—just answer truthfully. 

7. How do you celebrate special occasions? 

Be specific about your traditions as a couple. Do you have a favorite restaurant, vacation spot, or activity for birthdays or anniversaries? Honest answers about your shared life help the officer see your relationship as real and ongoing. 

8. What are your spouse’s family members’ names? 

Knowing your spouse’s family—parents, siblings, even nieces and nephews—shows that you’ve built a meaningful relationship beyond just paperwork. Take time to review names and relationships together before the interview. 

9. What did you do last weekend? 

This question catches many couples off guard because it tests your current, real-time connection. Your answers should reflect shared experiences, not separate lives. For example, “We went grocery shopping on Saturday and watched a movie on Sunday night.” 

10. What are your future plans together? 

Officers want to see that your relationship extends beyond immigration benefits. Talk about your goals as a couple—buying a home, starting a family, or pursuing careers together. Show that you’re building a life, not just seeking a green card. 

How to Avoid Common Interview Mistakes 

Even when your marriage is real, it’s easy to make avoidable mistakes during your marriage green card interview. Many couples get nervous and overthink their answers—or worse, they memorize scripts that sound unnatural. 

To prepare effectively: 

• Review your application forms together so your answers match. 

• Bring updated evidence that shows your life together now, not just when you applied. 

• Stay calm and take a breath before answering each question. 

• Never lie or guess. It’s better to say, “I’m not sure,” than to make up an answer. 

Remember: honesty and consistency always win. 

The Best Way to Prepare 

If you’re feeling anxious about your upcoming interview, you don’t have to face it alone. Attorney LaToya McBean Pompy, founder of McBean Law, created the Green Card Interview Prep for Couples course—a practical roadmap to help couples feel prepared and confident. 

The course includes 23 videos, worksheets, and key takeaways that walk you through real interview scenarios, sample questions, and strategies to avoid costly mistakes. You’ll learn exactly what USCIS looks for, what not to say, and how to stay calm under pressure. 

For many couples, this preparation has made the difference between denial and approval. 

Final Thoughts 

Your marriage green card interview is more than just a formality—it’s your chance to show USCIS the love and life you’ve built together. With honesty, preparation, and the right guidance, you can walk into that room with confidence. 

Don’t forget to enroll in Attorney LaToya McBean Pompy’s Green Card Interview Prep for Couples course to make sure you and your spouse are fully ready for your interview.